About the facilitator

Nikita Sahay

Psychologist · Somatic, trauma-informed and Gottman-informed couple counsellor

India · Working online with clients and therapists

Eight years of practice across trauma, anxiety, grief and somatic therapy — now teaching therapists how couples heal through the nervous system.

For eight years, Nikita has sat with people in the parts of life that words struggle to hold — trauma, anxiety, grief. Somewhere in those years she stopped treating the body as a side note. Clients would narrate a memory calmly while their hands went cold, or laugh while their shoulders climbed towards their ears. The body was always saying the truer thing first.

That conviction took her to the Center for Healing in the USA, where she trained in somatic work, and later into Gottman-informed couple counselling. The two fit together more naturally than she expected: one gives you the map of what couples do, the other gives you the felt sense of why they cannot stop doing it.

Before private practice, Nikita spent years inside large organisations — Walmart, JLL and Accenture — as a Corporate Psychologist and Benefits Specialist. That work taught her something that still shapes her teaching: people do not change because they were given good information. They change when their system feels safe enough to try something new.

Mind Meredian is her own venture, and this training is the first of its kind she has built — a somatic and polyvagal lens on couple therapy, made for practising therapists in India. It is the course she wishes had existed when she was watching two people argue in front of her and sensing, clearly, that the argument was not the point.

How I work

The body speaks first

We track states, not just stories. What the nervous system does in the room is the most honest information available.

No villain in the room

Conflict cycles are protective, not pathological. Both partners are protecting something worth understanding.

Practice over theory

Insight is lovely; repair is felt. Sessions and trainings both lean on experiments you can actually do.

Training and background

  • 8 years of clinical practice — trauma, anxiety, grief and somatic therapy
  • Somatic therapy training at the Center for Healing, USA
  • Gottman-informed couple counsellor
  • Former Corporate Psychologist and Benefits Specialist at Walmart, JLL and Accenture
  • Founder of Mind Meredian

Learn this with me

Co-Regulation MapSomatic & Polyvagal Couple Therapy. 16 hours · Live online · Small cohort.